The journey starts here!

A very warm welcome to my second attempt at blogging.

Anyone familiar with my first effort will be aware it was about a fat (bald) bloke’s effort to lose weight after some gentle ‘encouragement’ from the wife and kids.

Ironically this blog will also no doubt feature a lot on weight loss, but with less effort on my part (see, silver linings already…).

So, what’s happened and why am I doing this? First the why.

If you do nothing else today (apart from read this obviously!) have a gander at the utterly brilliant and inspiring blog by my ‘fellow traveller’ Phil Starkey (www.philstarkey.wordpress.com).  I’m going to steal a lot of Phil’s stuff in the weeks to come (and if he happens to read this “sorry Phil, I hope you don’t mind?”). Phil kicked off his journey in March 2014 with this post, and it pretty much works for me:

“Welcome to my blog. It’s my way to keep a some what public diary of how I feel as I go through my journey with Cancer.  You are welcome to join me. So who writes a blog on cancer? Well me for starters. Its not exactly a subject you’d go googling for an entertaining read I’ll admit. Perhaps, you should ask the question ‘who reads a blog on Cancer?’. Well, that’s you. So now we’ve got over that, let’s begin. Like most things in our lives, you remember the extreme situations and they can provide some of he most bizarre and funny moments, the darkest thoughts, and the most overwhelming positive view on life. I can’t promise any of the above though, because I’m only just getting going on my journey fighting.”

That’s the why, now the what.

I am one in 500! I always knew I was special…

500 people a year in the UK get diagnosed with a rare form of Non Hodgkins Lymphoma (NHL) called MANTLE CELL LYMPHOMA.  Mainly men (typical…) and mainly in over 60s.

It’s one of the ‘newest’ of the 40-odd NHLs that have been discovered.  Look it up if you want more info – use Macmillan, NHS or Lymphoma websites and not the mad American pages I’m trying to avoid!

There is currently NO recognised cure for Mantle Cell.  That was a bit of a blow to the solar plexus. But there are lots of treatments.

Because I’m young (stop laughing at the back) and relatively fit (knew the bike investment was worth it) they should be able to throw the kitchen sink at this bugger to try and put it into remission.  It won’t stay there, but we’ll deal with that when the time comes – again, read up if you want a bit more detail.

The kitchen sink in this case includes two different courses of chemo, steroids, then after five months of intensive treatment, some sort of re-transplant of my own stem cells that will see me hospitalised for another month or two.

I’ve got a week until my CT scan then I’m straight in to the Western on Dec 2 to start my chemo, steroids etc. Dec 2 is also my dad’s 70th birthday. Bugger!

I’ll use the next few days to use my blog to reflect on how I’ve got here (including a plea to spread the #getchecked message) and to think about how this isn’t just affecting me, but my nearest and dearest loved ones.

In the meantime, a thought struck me when I was out for a few beers with a great bunch of guys and gals on Friday night.

I, personally, am one of life’s great avoiders. Conflict, dispute, happiness, sadness. I don’t like to get involved. I get tongue-tied, awkward. I hate colleagues’ leaving parties when the departer departs. No fan of fawning over new-born babies brought into the office. Anything that requires emotion. An emotional cripple? Aye, kind of.

What struck me on Friday night is that I wouldn’t have come out to the pub if the cancer boot had been on the other foot. I’d have made an excuse. I’d have stayed away, petrified what to say.

So… if it helps, let me set out a few grounds rules that I hope we can follow!

This bastard might be un-cureable, but it ain’t untreatable. I’m not here to be wrapped in cotton wool.  I’m here to be treated as normal. I’m here to take the piss and have the piss taken out of.  I’m here for the inappropriate jokes.  I’m here for the banter and the gossip (especially the gossip!).

I work on the old mantra of the only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about!

Speak soon!

A x

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About Andrew Slorance

Husband, father, son, brother, cyclist, pen pusher, pedant, contrarian , fights Mantle Cell Lymphoma in my spare time.
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37 Responses to The journey starts here!

  1. Mike Foilis says:

    Good luck Andrew. Enjoyed the blog

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  2. Debbie Thomson says:

    What a fantastic read, inspiring and a great attitude. Best of luck to you on your journey

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  3. John Handling says:

    Good effort Andrew. None of that emotional nonsense here 😉 You forgot bald. Fat bald bloke. No point starting on the wrong foot 🙂

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  4. Faith says:

    Inspiring blog #getchecked sending lots of positive energy to help get you through the tough times!

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  5. Clive Murray says:

    Good luck Andrew – very apt photo – let’s get saddled up, we’re all with you!

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  6. Rooting for you Andrew! Give it hell.

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  7. Sandy McKenzie says:

    Per ardua mate and don’t let the b****** get you down 👊

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  8. Graeme Forrester says:

    This thing doesn’t know what it’s up against, Andrew! Give it both barrels mate!

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  9. Kate McCheyne says:

    NHL clearly doesn’t know what it’s taken on! Good luck Andrew and great blog.

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  10. Karen Gillon says:

    Best of luck Andrew! Hoping everything works out. Enjoyed reading the blog

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  11. David Ferguson says:

    Thinking of you and the family pal. Will be in touch.

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  12. Mike Smith says:

    Great read, Andrew – all the very best to you. I may see you at the Western at some point!

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  13. John McGregor says:

    Hi Andrew. Just to wish you good luck mate. I’m 15 months into treatment for NHL. I’ve just had a PET scan which looks good with no further growth after chemo and then radio therapy. Fingers crossed! Would I have done anything different? I’d have eaten more. (Lost a lot of weight and my appetite). I’d have tried to stay fitter than I did but a positive attitude is the big thing and you sure seem to have that in spades. I hope things work out and you get everything under control. Best Wishes.

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  14. Douglas Fraser says:

    Chemo? Doesn’t that make your hair fall out?
    Good luck, chum. Give it hell.

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  15. Mary Allison says:

    HI Andrew – you perhaps won’t remember me from the crazy time at Glasgow 2014 (I worked for sportscotland and you provided much needed laughter on those early and late shifts!). I’ve had a wee change of career and I am now heading up Breast Cancer Now in Scotland. Enjoying your blog … Mary Allison

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  16. Sarah Wood says:

    Really enjoyed the read! I live to the same mantra! 😉 Get fighting, give that ‘bastard’ merry hell!

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  17. Suzanne Lyle says:

    Had no idea Andrew (stumbled across your blog as I was looking for Black Friday deals on twitter!). Brilliantly written of course, and just to reiterate what I hope you realise already, your SG colleagues are 100% here to support you through this.

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  18. Ross says:

    All these cheeky bald comments, I don’t know…. I reckon they’re all jealous. I am with you, brother! All the very best Andrew!

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